Parenting

I don't mean to discourage Rachel and Stephen, but parenting is going to be one of the hardest things you will do. We're going crazy and want to put all of our kids in the loony bin as well as ourselves. How do we keep them from teasing and hurting each other, how do we teach them responsibility, to control their emotions, to tell the truth not only to others but to themselves. How do we teach them to be happy, responsible, thoughtful, kind adults that make good mature choices, keep friendships, and contribute to their world? I don't know. I think it would help if Gordon and I were perfect examples, but we aren't but we still have the responsibility to teach our children all the things they should do. Right now I feel discouraged and depressed about it all, just you all just wait, just wait. You'll know exactly what I mean.

Hey Family,

I just read a little section of the website I sent you and it is really neat. Really, it is worth checking out.

http://education.byu.edu/youcandothis/

The part I read was about consequences in being consistent with both good and bad ones. It had great tips and explained that even though it is tough, it is easier in the long run - so true.

Thank goodness we can change. For example, I sometimes give Jonathan milk or water in a sippy cup if he seems to be really upset before I leave the room at night. Mike never lets him have milk or water in bed. . . so it isn't good for him. I need to decide now that I'll let him cry while I break the habit of giving him milk or water in bed. . . Okay, you'll have to see how I do.

-Ruth